5 Key Points from The Rudest Book Ever(Shwetabh Gangwar)

1. You are unhappy because others are doing better than you, in which case you would be happy if you were doing better than others. At any point, the source of your happiness and unhappiness rests in comparison with others. (You should not be doing that!)
2. You have to accept that people are flawed beings; we are a mix of selfish tendencies, biological urges, impulses, and ego-driven inclinations.
3. The day you can look at a bunch of people all competing with one another to be better in the eyes of someone, and choose to not be a part of the game, is the day you win in the mental battle of life.
4. Data is king. Knowledge about something, anything comes from data — remind yourself of this. I am not going to expect anything from them. I know practically nothing about their life. I am going to observe and wait for real data to show up. Waiting means that you allow yourself time to calm down from your initial excitement.
5. Make the fact that failures, rejections, and losses are normal foundational principles upon which your brain works. Real winning is a journey. Despite knowing this, people tend to give up the entire prospect of winning at the first sight of failure.

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اللهم صل على محمد وآل محمد
(Allahumma salli ‘ala Muhammad wa ali Muhammad)
سُبْحَانَ اللّهِ وَ بِحَمْدِهِ ، سُبْحَانَ اللّهِ الْعَظِيمِ
(SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, SubhanAllahil adzim)
سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك أشهد ان لا إله إلا أنت أستغفرك وآتوب إليك
(Subhanakallahumma wabihamdika asyhadu allaailaaha illa anta astaghfiruka wa atuubu ilaika)